Feeling discomfort when trying to relax is part of the process

The scientific model tells us that nothing is proved as true, it’s just not wrong yet. Here’s Dr. Feynman brilliantly explaining the scientific method.

I come across many models that don’t seem to hold up when I compare them to different studies or how I see them working with my clients.

One model that seems to keep proving it’s worth is Dr. Saj Ravzi’s Stress Response Hill, shown below. Check out his entire video, it’s worth the investment of time. The one point of his I want to highlight, is that most of us are operating at the “1”, we are slightly activated most of the time, and when we try to do mindfulness or relaxation exercises to get to the “0”, we may actually fell more agitated. It’s common to then think the exercise must not work, when actually the agitation in the body increases before it fully relaxes, so the increase in agitation means it’s working. I find this model extremely helpful to explain to clients prior to beginning relaxation exercises, as it helps them understand the increase in anxiety is part of the process.

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